Thursday, April 2, 2009

How to Tell If someone is in Love with You and not just your body

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Sometimes it's difficult to tell for sure when you're in a
relationship, especially a long-term relationship, whether or not the
man you're dating is in love with you. Your own personal insecurities
may play a role in this as well. However, there is one simple truth
that is the key to telling if a man is truly in love with you:

Actions speak louder than words

This is the fundamental truth that most men live by. In contrast, we
women tend to be talkers. We will go above and beyond to tell our man
just how much we love them. We can get quite poetic at times and men
love to hear. However, not all men are as good with words as we women
are. A man will most likely show you rather than tell you how much he
loves you.

A man who shows up on time to meet you, opens doors for you, remembers
special occasions in your life, and goes out of his way to take care
of your needs really loves you. Even things as simple as taking out
the trash, remembering your favorite color or foods, and introducing
you to his friends and family are often ways that men show how much
they care. Naturally there is no absolute formula to telling if a man
is in love with you as each man is different. However, his actions
will say more than anything else.

Even the way his friends and family treat you is an indication of how
he feels about you.

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Friends and family are often very good at telling
how a man feels. If he's into you his friends and family will most
likely throw hints or ask you lots of questions. Asking questions is
just their way of telling whether or not you and your man are a good
fit. They usually do this once a man has indicated that your
relationship could be serious.

Think about the way he acts and the way he treats you when you are

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Does he focus on you or do his eyes wander? Does he turn off
his cell phone during a meal with you or is h e busy chatting someone
else while you're eating? Does he pull out a chair for you or take a
seat and leave you to pull out your own? All of these can be great
indicators as to how a man feels about you and where your relationship
is in his mind.

It's not rocket science to tell if a man really loves you. The
important thing to remember is that in a man's world actions speak
louder than words.

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