Monday, March 30, 2009

Sexual underbelly of our lives


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Fetishes can seem like the sexual underbelly of our lives. But even in
a healthy and monogamous relationship, satisfying a fetish can be
extremely rewarding, both for the person with the fetish and his or
her partner. (You can find a great definition of what, exactly, a
fetish is by visiting drsusanblock.com or wikipedia.org.)

Chances are, though, you know enough about what a fetish is, but are
more specifically concerned with one fetish in particular - your own
or that of your lover. The first thing to remember is not to be afraid
of the fetish (provided, of course, that it is not inherently
dangerous or illegal in and of itself).

Most of the fetishes I know of were formed in childhood, adolescence,
or young adulthood. One friend confides that she saw a (female) cousin
of hers spanked, a cousin on whom she had a crush, and ever since
then, spanking - either being spanked by someone or spanking someone
else - excites her. Another friend, as a youngster, spied a scout
leader bending over the trunk of her car, and developed a fetish for
what can now be referred to as the 'den mother' role play. (Note, too,
that although these fantasies were formed at an early age, neither
person is interested in children whatsoever, nor were they formed by
any inappropriate contact between adults and children. That kind of
inappropriate interest is not part of our discussion here.


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If someone
approaches you with that 'fetish' - please, pick up the phone and
contact authorities! What we are discussing here is the healthy adult
expression of personal experiences.)

Gratefully, the Internet makes it relatively easy to gather the needed
ingredients for fetish satisfaction. For uniforms of all types, start
with an auction site, like eBay.com. There you will find the perfect
outfit for most costume or uniform-related fetishes, including
scouting, cheerleading, military, law enforcement, and a host of other
accoutrements. Somewhere, someone is getting rid of a scouting or
military uniform they no longer need - and you're about to excite your
partner with an amazing outfit for a reasonable cost!

If your fetish paraphernalia requires something a bit more esoteric,
you'll want to check out a site like www.aswgt.com (Adam and Gillian's
Sensual Whips and Toys) or www.affections.com, which offer a full
complement of handcuffs, ankle cuffs, masks, whips, and other
accessories.

Of course, by their very nature, fetishes are highly personal. For
some people, simply admiring their lovers' feet or lower legs is
extremely sexy, so rather than searching online for something a bit
odd, it might simply be a matter of finding just the right toenail
polish or other accessory, as you would at footsiesbiz.com.

Most of all, relax and have fun with it.


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This fetish is the kinky,
personal side to your lover, as they have been conditioned to be
turned on by this particular object or activity. Enjoy it, in all of
its twisted glory. Treat it with a sense of joy and play, and you will
find that you, too, enjoy the fetish.

Thursday, March 26, 2009

Nymphomania


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Throughout history, women have been perceived as objects of desire
but, in contrast, prohibited from expressing their own sexual desires.
Into the 21st century, however, the thoughts with regard to a woman's
sexual health have become increasingly liberal, leaving many women,
who once were concerned about their own compulsive sexual habits, to
find a place with acceptance is what is considered a positive side of
nymphomania; excessive sexual drive and sexual activity. Understanding
the symptoms of female nymphomania and when nymphomania is a
destructive complication, will ensure women, with advanced sexual
desires and libido, are better equipped to gauge healthy sexual
encounters from unhealthy sexual encounters.

Nymphomania, or excessive sexual desire, was long considered a
physiological and psychological complication in both men and women.
For women, secretly suffering from nymphomania, the excessive sexual
desires often led to actions which were scrutinized by society as
being promiscuous. In today's society, however, a woman's healthy sex
drive is considered an indication of natural female libido and is an
indication of a woman who is accepting of her appearance, her emotions
and, oftentimes, may indicate the absence of psychological
complications. In fact, many healthcare professionals, from medical to
psychological, believe the woman suffering from nymphomania, may
actually be a woman who is more socially, spiritually and emotionally
connected with the world in which she lives. In contrast to historical
viewpoints, it is women who do not engage in regular sexual activity,
today, who may possess complications in this same area. So, when does
an excessive sexual desire lead to a complication?

For women, sexual experiences entail a variety of methods. From
flirting, foreplay, oral sex to full intercourse, being classified as
a happy nymphomaniac can span a full range of activities.


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This is not
to say that an excessive sexual habit is, in all cases, a healthy
female behavior. In women with excessive libido, experiencing
nymphomania symptoms there can be complicating factors. Indicators
such as lack of sleep, missed days of work, failing to eat, avoiding
friends and family; these are all indications of a potential sexual
addiction which can lead to health complications.


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For women
experiencing the new social acceptance of their love of sex, there is
a need to monitor the fine line between satisfying sexual health and
complicating daily living activities in the name of it.

In addition to remaining cognitively aware of the sexual balance,
women who enjoy an excessive libido should be reminded to always
practice safe sexual experiences. Choosing healthy partners, engaging
in the use of condoms, and using proper methods to ensure prevention
of pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, are crucially
important to maintaining a healthy physical and psychological balance
and working to ensure the ongoing social acceptance of the happy
nymphomania identification of women today.

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Hottest Couples


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There are many hot Hollywood couples to report on, but you don't see a lot of information on interracial celebrity couples. Coming from diverse backgrounds can make for a much more interesting duo. The famous interracial marriage of Lucy and Desi Arnaz led the way, and these couples are hot on their trail.

Hottest Interracial Celebrity Couple #1: Seal and Heidi Klum

Supermodel Heidi Klum and British musician Seal Henry Samuel married on a beach in Mexico in May 2005. Heidi, who is Caucasian, hails from Germany and her fame rises from her days in the Victoria's Secret catalog. She now has her own hit TV show, Project Runway.

Seal is of Brazilian and Nigerian descent and won the 1992 award for the British Male Solo Artist. Scarred from a childhood battle with lupus, Heidi responds to questions of their relationship with "love is blind." Seal raises Heidi's daughter from a previous relationship and the couple currently have two children of their own.

Hottest Interracial Celebrity Couple #2: David Bowie and Iman

Rock and Roll Hall of Famer David Bowie married the stunning supermodel in 1992. London born Bowie and Somali born Iman have children from previous relationships, but also have one daughter together who was born in 2000. This attractive couple proves that race does not have to be a factor when it comes to love.

Hottest Interracial Celebrity Couple #3: Tiger Woods and Elin Nordegren

Superstar golfer Tiger Woods is extremely proud to be half African-American and half Thai. While born in California, his wife Elin, a former nanny and model, grew up in Sweden. Tiger says of his relationship with Elin that "It's pretty exciting to find a person who compliments you so well. She's just like me: very competitive with a little bit of a temper."
This duo has been stuck together like glue since their days of performing on Rent in the 90s. Their relationship demonstrates the hatred of some individuals when it comes to interracial dating or marriage.


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After marrying in 2003, they began to receive threatening letters for "being sellouts to their races." Hopefully rumors of a split aren't true, because they have remained so strong through all the negativity.

Hottest Interracial Celebrity Couple #5: Ellen Pompeo and Chris Ivery

Grey's Anatomy star Ellen Pompeo (Meredith) and African-American music producer Chris Ivery are both Boston natives, and have recently announced their engagement.


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Many were surprised to see the two were a couple after being seen on the Oprah show, but they claim they "are meant to be."


Hottest Interracial Celebrity Couple #4: Taye Diggs and India Menzel


Monday, March 23, 2009

Top 5 Upcoming Xbox 360 Games of 2009



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The year of 2009 is already set for some of the best gaming titles to be released in a long time. There will be high octane gun blazing action, brand new immersive RPG universes, and everything in between for the Xbox 360 this year. Popular franchises will be a return with stand alone titles and even the comic genre may reach a never before seen standard in the video game industry.

Here are the top 5 upcoming Xbox 360 games of 2009.

Halo 3: ODST (aka Halo: Recon) - Release Date: Q3 2009

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Halo 3: ODST will be the latest addition to the Halo series, offering a different perspective to the gameplay in the science fiction universe. You will no longer control Master Chief. Instead, you are a lone Orbital Drop Shock Trooper, one of Earth's most elite soldiers of the UNSC (they are known as the "Hell Jumpers"). Although you don't have Master Chief's reflexes, super strength, and combat awareness, you must battle the Covenant in the city of New Mombasa with all the skills you have - stealth included (but it is not strictly a stealth game). The setting takes place during the events of Halo 2, after the devastating invasion of the city. Although the gameplay resembles the previous Halo games, it will be a completely new perspective. Through the eyes of an average Joe elite solider trying to save the Earth from certain destruction.

No Halo title is complete without a solid online multiplayer mode. Players can save films and screenshots, compete in Campaign scoring, and even play the game on four-player co-op mode. Maps can be created with the Forge editor, in addition to the 24 maps already in the game. This Xbox 360 game is not to be missed - it will be released in the autumn of 2009.

Batman: Arkham Asylum - Release Date: June 9th, 2009 (also on PC and PS3

Batman: Arkham Asylum is an upcoming action-adventure game coming this summer, taking the DC Universe to platforms like never before. Despite the terrible reputation video games have in their quest to become movies, this Xbox 360 title may break the trend and emerge as the ultimate Batman game. After the critically acclaimed blockbuster The Dark Knight hit theaters in late 2008, there are heavy expectations for this game, regardless of the story and setting.

Batman: Arkham Asylum will be based on the long-time 'comic mythos' of the infamous Arkham Asylum, an iconic prison in the DC Universe. The story begins after Batman captures The Joker, following an attack he made on the Gotham prison. This leads to many sane convicts being sent to Arkham Asylum - enemies of the comic hero. The Joker then sets a trap for Batman within the prison, leaving him trapped and vulnerable to Gotham's worst supervillains, all seeking cold vengeance against the caped crusader.

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The script is written by Emmy-award winning Batman writer Paul Dini and the game will feature other high profile villains, such as Mr. Freeze, The Scarecrow, Poison Ivy, Bane, Killer Moth, and The Riddler. Unlike Batman games in the past, Arkham Asylum is going to revolve around most of the 70 year old series instead of being restricted to a particular adaptation. To escape death, you will have to use Batman's combat prowess and all of his legendary detective skills. Don't miss it.

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Dragon Age: Origins - Release Date: Q4 2009 (also on PC and PS3)

There is much expected of this upcoming RPG game by Bioware. This company's last stand alone RPG title was Mass Effect, which played like a third-person shooter RPG hybrid (with the ability to pause the screen, give commands to your squad teammates, and unleash biotic abilities on enemies). Bioware has never released a game set in a medieval fantasy universe - yet. Dragon Age: Origins will be their latest release and the expectations are set high.

Players will be able to choose from three base classes - Rogue, Warrior, or Mage, but you will have an individual 'origin' story that will affect the story of the entire game. Gameplay is in real time, similar to Mass Effect, and you will have the ability to pause and issue tactical commands to your party members, who are all major characters to the storyline. Your decisions in quests matter because a simple moral choice (which is more complicated than the beaten to death 'good and evil') can influence the way NPCs react to you. Certain rewards can only be attained if you make the right choices. And by right, I don't mean morally.
Your character's origin and character background is chosen by you and every action you take affects the dynamic environment. The dialogue continues to be integral, like in all Bioware games. What you say to world NPCs and party members you meet can make them friends or enemies. Dragon Age: Origins will be released late in 2009. All dates are not yet official and are subject to change.

Mafia II - Release Date: 2nd Half of 2009

The Grand Theft Auto series defined the sand-box style crime action genre for a long time but there have been critically acclaimed Xbox 360 titles that showed the industry that there's room for more. Like all video games, developers know that the bar must always be raised. Mafia II is the upcoming sequel to Mafia: The City of Lost Heaven, which has been rated at 9.3/10 and called one of the best games of the year in 2002 by GameSpot when it was released.

The setting of Mafia II takes place in the 1940s and 1950s, in Empire City (based on New York City and San Francisco). Hand to hand combat will be smoother, the car chases and gun fights will be bigger, and the story will feel like a Hollywood crime drama epic. You assume the role of Vito Scaletta, an Italian American (born to Sicilian family) with his ambitions set on rising through the ranks of organized crime with his childhood friend, Joe Barbaro, and propelling his family dynasty to true wealth and power. Vito returns from World War II and the epic begins as he reunites with old friends and acquaintances, including enemies such as the Falconi, Vinci, and Clemente crime families. There are different endings to the story and how you finish your saga depends on you and your choices.

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Mafia II will contain two hours of in-game cut scenes and 700 pages of script, nearly twice as much as the original game. The writer of the first game has declared it as a tribute to old-time gangster movies, and that the premise will be darker and grittier - based on reality.

Call of Duty: Modern Warfare 2 - Release Date: Q4 2009 (also on PC and PS3)
The Call of Duty series has dominated the WWII first-person shooter genre with great emphasis on realism of history, events, and weapons of the 1940s. Even though the WWII market has been saturated for years, there are a few titles that excel, especially online, where thousands of all across the world can use all their skills and tactical abilities to survive in the true realism of war. Call of Duty: Modern Warfare is one of the greatest best-sellers of all time for PC, appealing to this generation. Featuring an engaging story, memorable characters (such as the legendary Captain Price), and highly dynamic war environments, there was no surprise it became the top selling game in the world in 2007.

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Call of Duty: Modern Warfare 2 will continue the modern setting and possibly follow up on the thrilling conclusion of the first game. Does it have what it takes to live up to the original and re-revolutionize the first person shooter genre? The online multiplayer mode itself cannot be missed. Be ready for it this holiday season of 2009. Remember, all dates are subject to change.

Friday, March 20, 2009

Toys I like to play with


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Powerful sex toys are not necessarily as loud as lawn mowers. There are several vibrators on the market that we recommend that still generate the intense vibrations without the loud noise. Here are some products that we recommend that still deliver the power, without the roar.

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Durex Ellipse - Durex Ellipse is the only vibrator in the range that is intended for vaginal penetration, and its body-contoured curves have been designed to reach your G-spot easily. This product is rechargeable. Single charge lasted about 30 Minutes, when it dies simply plug it in a recharge it. For the power that this vibrator delivers, its motor is conveniently quiet. Durex Ellipse features 3 speeds, subtle to intense, as well as a unique pulse mode. Ergonomically designed, massage pads are skin soft for utmost comfort.

Durex Charm - This vibrator stimulates the G-Spot, Vagina & Clitoris simultaneously. Made of silicone and quiet multi-speeds.


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Roll the smooth, spherical pad all over your body to relax muscles or tease sensitive areas; and rest it against your clitoris for more direct stimulation. This product is rechargeable and a single charge lasted about 30 minutes.
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Made of 100% medical grade silicone, this quiet vibrator is perfectly designed for hours of G-Spot Exploration. And once you are through, simply place Chester Cheeky on it base and let it recharge. You will never need to replace its batteries.

Astro Vibrators - These vibrators from Fun Factory are astrologically themed. Made of 100% medical grade silicone and vary in design with each different zodiac sign. The Astro Vibrators have quiet motors, but do not compromise on its powerful, multi-speed vibrations.