Sex Frequencies

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Have you ever wondered how your sex life stands up to another couple? Have you wondered if you are having too much sex, too little sex, or just the right amount? Have you wondered if there is a set amount that is considered normal? I will discuss the idea of a normal sex life and what factors may be influencing your numbers and how you stack up to other couples.

One of the major factors that determine approximately how much sex is "normal" is your age.

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Much younger people, especially young hormonal boys, want sex many more times than they are usually getting. Their sexual appetites far exceed what would be considered normal. Newly married couples or couples that have just gotten together are more likely to have more active sex lives. It is "normal" for these couples to have sex at least once a day however it maybe more or less. Their "normal" is much higher than couples that have been together for a while. People in their forties will have less sex than people in their twenties but still more than older couples. Their frequency is more likely to be a few times a week or a few times every few weeks.

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Then you have people in their fifties and higher that are likely to still have sexual desires but are much more diminished. They may have sex a few times a month and that is considered their "normal".

The amount of sex you have also depends on the stage of life you are in. Young people without any major responsibilities are likely to have more time for sex but less opportunity. College students may be busier with school work and have less time but more opportunity. Couples that have married, gotten their first big jobs, and started families are extremely busy and may be too tired to have sex all the time. Couples who have established their careers and have kids that are grown still have strong desires and more time to indulge them. Older couples definitely have the time but their desires are not as strong so are less likely to have sex.
There are numerous different factors that can affect your sex life besides just age and stage in your life.


Factors such as stress, diminished desire, and illness can affect your frequency as a couple. The important thing to remember is there is no across the board number that is "normal". What should be considered normal is what is right for you and your partner. Do not feel the need to compare your sex life with that of other couples. Some couples may have sex all day everyday and that is normal for them but you may have it a couple times a week and that is your normal. No matter what your number is as long as both parties are satisfied there is no need to worry about normalcy. Chances are your numbers fluctuate and so do your friends.

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There are many hot Hollywood couples to report on, but you don't see a lot of information on interracial celebrity couples. Coming from diverse backgrounds can make for a much more interesting duo. The famous interracial marriage of Lucy and Desi Arnaz led the way, and these couples are hot on their trail.

Hottest Interracial Celebrity Couple #1: Seal and Heidi Klum

Supermodel Heidi Klum and British musician Seal Henry Samuel married on a beach in Mexico in May 2005. Heidi, who is Caucasian, hails from Germany and her fame rises from her days in the Victoria's Secret catalog. She now has her own hit TV show, Project Runway.

Seal is of Brazilian and Nigerian descent and won the 1992 award for the British Male Solo Artist. Scarred from a childhood battle with lupus, Heidi responds to questions of their relationship with "love is blind." Seal raises Heidi's daughter from a previous relationship and the couple currently have two children of their own.

Hottest Interracial Celebrity Couple #2: David Bowie and Iman

Rock and Roll Hall of Famer David Bowie married the stunning supermodel in 1992. London born Bowie and Somali born Iman have children from previous relationships, but also have one daughter together who was born in 2000. This attractive couple proves that race does not have to be a factor when it comes to love.

Hottest Interracial Celebrity Couple #3: Tiger Woods and Elin Nordegren

Superstar golfer Tiger Woods is extremely proud to be half African-American and half Thai. While born in California, his wife Elin, a former nanny and model, grew up in Sweden.

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Tiger says of his relationship with Elin that "It's pretty exciting to find a person who compliments you so well. She's just like me: very competitive with a little bit of a temper."
This duo has been stuck together like glue since their days of performing on Rent in the 90s. Their relationship demonstrates the hatred of some individuals when it comes to interracial dating or marriage. After marrying in 2003, they began to receive threatening letters for "being sellouts to their races." Hopefully rumors of a split aren't true, because they have remained so strong through all the negativity.

Hottest Interracial Celebrity Couple #5: Ellen Pompeo and Chris Ivery

Grey's Anatomy star Ellen Pompeo (Meredith) and African-American music producer Chris Ivery are both Boston natives, and have recently announced their engagement.

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Many were surprised to see the two were a couple after being seen on the Oprah show, but they claim they "are meant to be."


Hottest Interracial Celebrity Couple #4: Taye Diggs and India Menzel

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Men often times have difficulties in engaging a conversation with a woman regarding the subject of introducing the sexual element on a date without the fear of being rejected. Some men have no idea atall how to flirt with women and be successful flirting with them. Men do not understand that, that is because you just really do not talk about it. What really does the trick is the old time saying, "Actions speak louder than words".

You will have to introduce the sexual element of the game very subtly in your interactions with your date and slowly escalating it as the night progress. By doing this, she will not interpret it in a threatening way and she will relax. Eventually, your date will let her guard down because she feels safe that you are not forcing anything. Balance your naughtiness with your trustworthiness.

Projecting your male sexuality and showing that you are confident and comfortable with it would send out a strong message to her without you having to talk about it. Women sense every detail of you wanting her, believe me, they do. They are very receptive to all kinds of emotions so be sure to send out the right emotions otherwise, you will receive the wrong reply.

Generally, women are more receptive with what you do, your body language would be the major factor on your success for the night so you won't have to go home frustrated like most of the nights before. Women will pick up what you do more than what you say to them. Let your voice and your gestures tell her that she is sexy, beautiful, you think she is hot, you want her, and you want to make love with her, without you actually having to say anything.

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Keep everything light, playful and pleasurably naughty. Then while you are flirting and sending out all these messages to her, and she reciprocates with her body language, flirts back and plays along - you will know that the game is on. You can now take your moves farther without being rejected. Knowing how to flirt with women, you will never have to go home frustrated anymore.